Pursuing social and legal equality without reference to reality has proven to be disastrous. It’s one thing to say that men and women are equal before God and the law; it’s quite another to say that they are the same or that any and all differences are either an illusion or unjust. So now, we talk without a hint of parody that men can bear children and that “not all women menstruate” and that love can make a second mom into a dad. None of this is true, but young people are expected to play along, to adapt and adopt these lies, pretending all is well, even if they’re not. Of all of the lies of the sexual revolution, that’s the most devastating. It was repeated at each new stage of the sexual revolution, in some form or another, in order to justify whatever way we were going to reimagine life in the world: “the kids will be fine.”