1. Understanding the Importance of Independence for Teenagers
“Mom, why won’t you allow me to listen to secular music?” I remember our conversation like it was yesterday. Our teenage son was an incredible musician. His aptitude for music theory was amazing. Brandon’s goal was to one day grow up to become a worship pastor. But, he also enjoyed secular songs - especially music by one particular guitarist. While we had allowed Brandon’s older sister to listen to acceptable secular songs, we had steered Brandon toward Christian artists. As Brandon unfolded the injustice of our parenting, I whispered a quick prayer and asked God to grant me wisdom. In short, I helped Brandon understand how God had put into his heart to write worship music and one day be a worship pastor. I said, “The Bible says, as a man thinks in his heart, so is he” (see Proverbs 23:7).