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5 Reasons Biblical Marriage Is Relevant for Current Generations

5 Reasons Biblical Marriage Is Relevant for Current Generations

Marriage is declining in America. According to a 2019 study by the Pew Research Center, the percentage of Americans who have cohabited was larger than that of those who have been married. This is not surprising, considering that “most Americans find it acceptable for unmarried couples to live together, even for those who don’t plan to get married.”  

Since Western societies are becoming more secularized, we should expect the rejection of religiously grounded practices like marriage. People have tried to redefine marriage, wanting to abandon the biblical practice and definition of it. For example, in 2015, the American Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage in the landmark Obergefell v. Hodges decision. This expanded “marriage” to include same-sex couples, granting them legal rights and privileges. Those who practice consensual non-monogamy (also called ethical non-monogamy) argue that dating or being in a sexual relationship with another person outside of their spouse is not adultery if all individuals involved give their consent. According to an article by Psych Central, this arrangement in which husband and wife are willing for their spouse to have additional partners is seen as a healthy way to cope with being “attracted to multiple people at once.” 

Amid this whirlwind of ideas and changes to the definition of marriage, where should Christians stand? Do we give in to the whims of an ever-changing culture so that we are relevant? Are we supposed to ignore or reinterpret the verses in Scripture that define marriage and discuss sexual relationships just to appease the world? Even though the culture will continually shift, the Bible does not change. We should follow God’s Word and remain steadfast to its truth. This includes being faithful to what Scripture teaches about marriage.  

Although society increasingly wants to move beyond it, marriage is still important. Here’s why: 

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7 Signs You and Your Spouse Need Marriage Counseling

7 Signs You and Your Spouse Need Marriage Counseling

Some shout from the rooftops that they are in marriage counseling and, because of their good experience, encourage all married couples to follow suit. Others take a more private approach and prefer to keep their season of counseling to themselves. Wherever you fall on that spectrum, please be assured that seeking and receiving biblical marriage counseling is nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about.

In heaven, we will perfectly live out our role as the bride of Christ. But sadly, on earth, our marriages are tainted by sin and are undoubtedly imperfect. Seeking help to make your marriage as strong and God-honoring as possible is a sign of strength, not weakness.

No two marriages look the same, even within the church. Therefore, the signs pointing to a need for marriage counseling might look different for different couples. However, some basic signs apply to everyone. Let's look at some of these together.

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50 Percent U.S. Divorce Rate Is a Myth, Christian Researcher Says

50 Percent U.S. Divorce Rate Is a Myth, Christian Researcher Says

"Seventy-one percent of people are still married to their first spouse," Feldhahn explained, which leaves 29 percent, but "that's not the true story either. Because that includes everybody who was married for 50 years and their spouse died."

5 Things to Do if Your Marriage Is Falling Apart

5 Things to Do if Your Marriage Is Falling Apart

Marriage is a gift given to us by our gracious God with the intent of reflecting the covenantal relationship between Christ and the church (Eph. 5:31-33). If we're being honest, though, marriage doesn't always feel like a gift. Sometimes, marriages reflect the pain and suffering of the world rather than God's goodness.

If you feel your marriage is falling apart, I hope to offer you some ideas for getting back on track. The following ideas are too simplistic for marriages involving abuse. They are intended for those who are growing apart and need help to find their way back to one another.

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Christians Should Never Attend a Gay Wedding, Theologian Carl Trueman Asserts

Christians Should Never Attend a Gay Wedding, Theologian Carl Trueman Asserts

Trueman's column was published as Christians continue debating comments by pastor and radio preacher Alistair Begg, who encouraged a Christian grandmother to attend a transgender wedding. Begg's advice included a few caveats. Trueman's column did not mention Begg.

The 'Swinging' Twenties

The 'Swinging' Twenties
We’re in the twenties again, but let’s say it’s less “roaring” and more “swinging.” The most common type of open relationship is “swinging”—and it’s having a moment as well. The hashtag #SwingTok has more than 2.6 billion views on TikTok, often marked by the symbol of an upside-down pineapple.

Alistair Begg Sparks Controversy for Encouraging Grandma to Attend Transgender Wedding

Alistair Begg Sparks Controversy for Encouraging Grandma to Attend Transgender Wedding

Pastor and author Alistair Begg has ignited a social media debate within the faith community for advising a Christian grandmother to attend the wedding of her grandson to a transgender person.

Prioritizing the Value of Family

Prioritizing the Value of Family

Apparently, it really matters what men think about themselves, about women, and about families.

Carl Lentz Thanks His Wife, Laura, for Staying with Him Despite Affair

Carl Lentz Thanks His Wife, Laura, for Staying with Him Despite Affair

Carl Lentz, the former pastor of Hillsong NYC, took to social media recently to express gratitude toward his wife, Laura Lentz, for staying with him despite his infidelity toward her a few years ago.

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